Things we learned to appreciate more during COVID-19 lockdown

Curfews helped Tomislav’s family appreciate the value of living in an intergenerational household and spending quality time together

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A baby on a couch in the foreground, 4 kids around the dining table in the background
Georgiev
06 July 2020

The coronavirus disease (COVID-19) pandemic is of a scale most people alive today have never seen. Lockdowns and curfews to contain the spread of the virus impacted the way children learn, the way their families earn a living, and how safe they feel in their homes and communities. Despite the ongoing threat, countries around the world are starting to lift restrictions. As we question whether we will ever go back to what we once knew to be “normal”, its worth taken a step back to see how we can build on what we have learned to build back a better world for children.

As a journalist, UNICEF photographer Tomislav Georgiev was one of the rare professionals with a permit to go out during the curfews and capture images of the deserted streets of the capital. But he discovered that in times like this, the most valuable images can be found closer to home. He turned his lenses from the outside world to capture photos of his own family with a loving eye. In a household where four generations live together, Tomislav captured scenes of play, family celebrations, sharing, exploring and learning new skills.

“I realized that no matter how much time we think we have; at the end of the day, what I came to appreciate was that we simply don’t spend enough quality time with our families,” says Tomislav.

Photographer’s daughters Ana (7) builds towers from stone tiles that were left over from the paving of the yard.
Georgiev
Photographer’s daughters Ana (7) builds towers from stone tiles that were left over from the paving of the yard.

Days in lockdown were an opportunity for children to reinvent ways of play and learning,  exploring their immediate environment and making the most of what they had available. Building resilience in children is one way we help them to cope in difficult moments.

After tiding up their room that served as a playground during the longest curfew lasting 61 hours, twins Ana and Kaya (7) turn the broom into a horse that they both ride on.
Georgiev
After tiding up their room that served as a playground during the longest curfew lasting 61 hours, twins Ana and Kaya (7) turn the broom into a horse that they both ride on.

Curfews were also a time to help children learn responsibility and their role in contributing in   our own way to find a solution to collective problems. “The silent understanding of my children was simply astonishing. We stay home, no questions asked, no demands to go and play with friends. Their lives have completely changed, yet they seem to grasp the importance of their contribution better than most adults,” says Tomislav.

Photographer’s daughters Lea (10), the twins Ana and Kaya (7) and their cousin Stela (3) use watercolors to paint stones as a gift to their grandmother.
Georgiev
Photographer’s daughters Lea (10), the twins Ana and Kaya (7) and their cousin Stela (3) use watercolors to paint stones as a gift to their grandmother.

During curfews many learned about the importance of being creative with the scarce resources and limited physical space they had at home. Also, many came to appreciate that small acts of kindness and gratitude to other family members helps to boost emotional wellbeing.

Photographer's daughter Kaja (7) learns how to sew with her eighty-seven-year-old great-grandfather Trajche in the tailors workshop they have in their family home. Kaja wants to learn how to sew dresses for her dolls.
Georgiev
Photographer's daughter Kaja (7) learns how to sew with her eighty-seven-year-old great-grandfather Trajche in the tailors workshop they have in their family home. Kaja wants to learn how to sew dresses for her dolls.

Some even learned new skills but what matters most is learning to appreciate the emotional connections made between different generations.  Its these connections that help us to develop the emotional resilience’s we need to get through stressful times.

Photographer's niece Stela (3) and cousins (photographer's daughters" Lea (10) and twins Ana and Kaja (7) are first to be seated and served Easter lunch by photographer’s wife and mother-in-law.
Georgiev
Photographer's niece Stela (3) and cousins (photographer's daughters" Lea (10) and twins Ana and Kaja (7) are first to be seated and served Easter lunch by photographer’s wife and mother-in-law.

“It is true – this crisis has taken its toll on humanity. However, it also provided an opportunity for generations to unite and perhaps begun to shape our younger generations to think differently about their own individual roles and how we as individuals can all contribute in our own way to find a solution to collective problems,” says Tomislav.

 

 


 

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