Tool: Examples of potential goals for competency domains

General overview of potential goals

Communication and expression

• Listening; observing communication styles and patterns
• Usage of creative, artistic and cultural methods of expression
• Assertiveness; using speech to calm others or de-escalate conflict
• Using communication and expression to transform conflict and build peace

Identity and self-esteem

• Healthy exploration of self and identity; caring for self & others
• Understanding self and others; influences to identity
• Developing self-esteem and confidence; anti-bullying
• Expressing gratitude and appreciation; simplicity

Leadership and influence

• Understanding leadership styles
• Strategies for influencing others in a positive way
• Trust building; taking initiative
• Being a positive influence on family, friends & community

Problem solving and managing conflict

• Information gathering and conflict analysis
• Reframing and finding ‘win-win’ solutions
• Negotiation and mediation; containing and de-escalating conflict
• Dialogue facilitation and consensus building

Coping with stress and managing emotions

• Understanding emotions of self and others
• Managing negative emotions in self and others
• Ability to calm self and others; healing from trauma or distress
• Forgiveness and reconciliation; repairing damaged relationships