The Strength of Love
"Their love and loyalty remind me why I do this work."
- Bosanski/Hrvatski/Srpski
- English
Sometimes the stories we hear are not just stories. They are mirrors, showing us the strength of the human heart even when we think it has been broken beyond repair. This is the story of Ahmed and Ali. Two brothers. Two companions on a journey that became far too heavy, far too soon.
Ahmed is 17, Ali is 14. They come from Ghazni, a city in the heart of Afghanistan, from the Hazara people – a community whose history is written with pages of persecution, fear, and loss. Their family is scattered across the world’s map: their parents fled to Iran, their sister sought refuge in Pakistan. But after her husband was executed, she was left alone with her children, with no one to turn to.
Ahmed and Ali were left on their own. No parents. No safe home. But not without hope. What carried them forward was not only the instinct to survive – it was love. Love that knows no borders. Love that does not ask permission to cross mountains and seas.
To earn money for the journey, they worked in construction in Iran. Day after day, under the merciless sun, they carried the weight of adults – not only on their young shoulders but in their hearts, which had learned responsibility far too early. Ahmed never gave up. “I have to take care of Ali,” he said.
Their journey was a long and fearful. They crossed Turkey, Greece, Albania, Montenegro… until they reached Bosnia and Herzegovina, to the reception center Ušivak.
“That’s where I first met them. In Ahmed’s eyes, I saw the weariness of an old man, yet the strength of a mountain. In Ali’s eyes – a tenderness that could melt ice, and a spark of childlike hope that refused to fade. They were not asking for much. Only to be seen. To be protected. To be heard” said Admira Dinarevic, and continued “At Ušivak, I had the privilege to become their guardian. That responsibility was not just professional – it was deeply personal. When I looked at them, I did not just see two boys from a distant land. I saw my children. I saw my sons.”
Through the guardianship system, every unaccompanied child in the reception center is provided with the support of an adult who protects their rights and best interests. The guardian serves as a link between the child and all relevant institutions and organizations. They guide the child toward available services and make sure the child receives healthcare, access to education, psychosocial support, and legal aid. The guardian’s role is to accompany the child through every important step, offering guidance and support in daily challenges, so the child can feel safe, informed, and included.
Ahmed dreams of becoming an IT specialist. He speaks English, is hardworking, brave, and patient. But when you ask him what he wants to be, he smiles and quietly says: “Like my brother.”
“Their love and loyalty remind me why I do this work. Because as long as there is a child who believes in a brother, in love, in a new beginning – there will always be a reason to fight. For every child.”
With the support of UNICEF and World Vision BiH guardians who protect rights and ensure the best interests of unaccompanied children on the move in reception centers, children grow, learn, make friends, heal traumatic experiences, and rediscover their strength and potential to achieve their dreams.
Ahmed and Ali now dream of Belgium. Not because they believe it’s perfect, but because they believe it can give them what they have never had: a home, safety, and a future. And the love between brothers? That is a strength no war, no border, and no passing years can ever break.