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How children and young people could be better informed about the Convention and South African child rights legislation and be better empowered to realize their rights - by Zahraa Samaai

UNICEF/South Africa/2009/Hearfield
© UNICEF/South Africa/2009/Hearfield
Winner of the essay competition, Zahraa Samaai, reads her essay at the commemoration of the 20th Anniversary of the Rights of the Child held at Constitutional Hill in Johannesburg.

Allow me to recreate my childhood. Great lullabies, peaceful songs and excitement for my day ahead. I was to ride my bicycle, eat suckers and enjoy moments soaking up the sun. Peace and happiness, was what I always felt. I therefore, become greatly disturbed if children’s lives are filled with abuse; these same children, who are the keepers of tomorrow. These children who are to bring forth future generations. It is for this reason, that it becomes vitally important to protect all children, at all times.
      
Children should be made aware of their rights from an early age and be taught to confidently say “no” to any sexual abuse. To discuss sexual abuse, we have to realize that sexual abuse is really a symptom of a sick society. It therefore becomes imperative, to look first at family environments. The rights of children should first be implemented and taught in the homes .The family is where the child learns about morals, beliefs, rights and wrongs. Children should be listened to, their opinions should be voiced and loving attention should be given at all times. In this manner the child is able to feel validated. Through validation, they gain confidence and self esteem. With greater self esteem, children are then able to stand up for what they believe. If we are able to raise the self esteem of our future generation and educate our citizens, young or old, we will be able to curb violence against children.

 Education should really involve parents, children, schools and social groups. Adults need to accept that they have a responsibility towards their children, to create loving homes and emotional stability. Schools should provide educational programs and become learning centres, not only of academic achievement but also centres where one builds good morals and ethics. Our recreation groups, be it social or religious should provide sound soft landings, where children feel comfortable to ask questions, search for answers and seek help and support , free of judgement and ridicule. It is when children are provided with good rules and guidelines, that they are able to steer themselves in the right direction. It is when they know there is back up and support systems that they are able to stand up and say: ‘NO, I HAVE HAD ENOUGH!’

Furthermore, television and media can play a major role. Children spend many hours watching television. These television sets really becomes their ‘daily teachers’. Programs should be implemented, where children are made aware of their rights in a fun and enjoyable manner. Should abuse take place, children should feel encouraged to ask for help. Posters and pamphlets could be printed and distributed, all providing education and enrichment of the knowledge of the rights of children. I also further believe, laws should be implemented to totally protect the child. Harsh punishments should not only be given but also broadcasted, to deter any potential future abusers.

Therefore, it takes social upliftment, education, child rights programs, awareness and above all support to curb abuse against children.

It is only through the courage, discipline and commitment of each citizen of our society that we would be able to protect our future leaders. Ending with a quote I’ve read: ‘You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.’
Let us not send forth broken, bent arrows which leaves no mark. Let us send forth strong, healthy determined and powerful arrows, which are to create a bright bolder and unimaginable future. Protect our future generation, let us all strive to curb child abuse, NOW!

 

 

 

 

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